Unmarried couples: the rights of de facto spouses in the event of separation or death

  • October 23, 2024
  • Road accident, Industrial accident, Crimes, Civil Status, Family, Housing, Justice, Support payments
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The responsibilities, obligations and rights of spouses vary according to the type of relationship:

Unlike married or civil union spouses, de facto spouses have no obligations towards each other. In addition, they don’t share the family patrimony.

What the law says

Some of the protections afforded to spouses under the Civil Code of Québec are reserved for married or civil union couples.

Unlike spouses, all children have the same rights, regardless of the relationship between their parents.

In the event of a separation, the law doesn’t entitle you to, as a de facto spouse:

In the event of your de facto spouse’s death:

Benefits and allowances

The various agencies, organizations, government programs and pension plans recognize de facto spouses differently. For example, under certain conditions, you may receive a death benefit if your de facto spouse dies:

Is your common-law spouse separated but not divorced? A legal separation - or separation from bed and board - between two married people isn’t a divorce. This means that facto spouses remain bound by marriage to their "ex" spouse and have certain obligations towards them. You and your ex-partner both have rights, but they aren’t the same. For example, the surviving spouse's pension and retirement benefits would go to the ex-partner.

Agreeing on rights and obligations

The law doesn’t impose any rights or obligations on de facto spouses. However, it’s possible to have a cohabitation agreement or a separation agreement.

A cohabitation agreement is a written agreement between spouses living together in a de facto union. Among other things, it can specify:

The separation agreement takes effect at the time of separation. In particular, it enables you to agree on property division, child custody, or support payments for you.

A will is not an agreement between two people. Instead, it’s a personal document that allows you to designate your heirs and determine how your assets will be distributed to them. 

Any questions or problems?

See the following websites depending on the subject:

Pension or surviving spouse's pension: Retraite Québec

Death benefits:

Your rights in the event of separation and the mediation services available to parents: Ministère de la Justice.

Are you dissatisfied with services from these departments and agencies? Do you think you quality for an amount you’ve been refused? Turn to the Protecteur du citoyen. Our services are confidential and free of charge.

Note that this article will be updated in 2025, when Bill 56 comes into force.

Also see: Separation or divorce: mediation for avoiding court